Tuesday, August 25, 2009

My dear dear J,

Yesterday was our 2 year "Proposal anniversary"
(I wonder if other people also have anniversaries like that)

My guess is that your memory of that night can't be very nice, thanks to my very freaked out reaction to the proposal. I am sorry for that.

You should know though that i had the most incredible experience that night,
Something i never expected to happen to me - did.
Someone i loved asked me to marry him...
& not just asked, mind you - asked on bended knee, with a ring and wine ...
Thank you baby for making my memory of the proposal so so special.

In the last year of being married, we have been through 3 trials (i think we have consensus on this) and dealt with it better than okay...
and even though the miscarriage is only a week old (i have decided that its okay to talk about this), i still recognise that while i would rather have had things work out differently, now that they haven't, i am only grateful that i am dealing with this situation with you.

So j-boy... 2 and something years of being with each other, and 1 year of marriage later, i know today what a good decision i made 25th Aug 2007, when i said "YES".


With All My love,
A
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p.s.: don't worry about this being a public forum. only 4 people visit...
and they'll be okay with anything. Trust me.

3 comments:

Jimmy said...

hee hee :o)... it was quite amusing the way you freaked out... one minute you were ok, the next you were not... the planning, the extra baggage that i carried and you not even asking why i was carrying so much for an overnight trip... me trying to sneak in at noght with the wine when you were sitting in the balcony... i actually thought that the whole plan had gone kaput beause of your freaking out until that really sweet message you sent me when i got back home. its been a great 2 years and i think that our marriage has only become strongerby the day. we are good baby...very good in fact.
Thank you for the darling you are and your rockstarness.
love you muppie
J

Ganju said...

Happy two year proposal anniversary to both of you!

My only concern is that "muppie" is much too close to "Muffy Cat".

Mathangi said...

Must I be okay with this? Must I? Must I? Really Anna?

Ok fine, I am :)! (The things one has to do and see, shiva shiva)

Much love and hugs you two. Okay fine, more for Anna but you know, it's an occupational hazard. (It being Anna, not you Jimmy)